What makes a man SEXY

I think Joe DuBois (Jake Weber) is hot! He is, as all fans of Medium know, , the husband of Allison Dubois on the ABC series. But he is the ultimate husband, not without faults, but very believable and better yet, sexy. But it's not about sex. It's about his character, integrity, loving and yet masculine nature. He is stable, responsible, caring, not to mention looks pretty good in his pajamas. I really think that he is a realistic representation of my own, real life, husband. He too, is responsible, caring and all that, but since he doesn’t wear pj’s, well, that’s just for me to know……

Joe has respect for his wife, and makes every attempt to support her, knowing that she is considered a freak by the rest of the world. Surrounded by females (wife and three daughters), he makes being a man seem like a daily struggle. I guess it probably is for most men. My wonderful husband, Mark, is also surrounded by women, and I consider that an important part of how he has come to understand us – our moods, needs, emotions (well, only to a point – even we don’t quite get it all, do we?). He is, dare I say it, in touch with his feminine side. Mark is wonderfully sensitive, cries at chick flicks, has a big heart, and is the love of my life.

You see, the really sexy guys aren't those that are model perfect. It's those real men, the ones in the day-to-day routine, that truly appeal to the real women that WE are.